Techguy.
Thank you for the input. Sounds very much like my sit.
Went to my nurse practioner today and she says the same thing. Go dark. Stop doing all the things I do around the house, yard etc. Drop the dates with her. Start hanging out with new people, male and female. Basic idea is the same, you want what you can't have. That is my hope, that she will see the next months with out me and end up wanting me in some way. A better way than now, as I am just her biotch. Time for her to stop having her cake and eating it too!!!