YOUR H is in the MIDDLE of an affair...and he wants to confront the person YOU had an affair with...??? WTF?
Why don't you make a plan that goes something like you and your OM and his wife and your H and his OW and whomever she's attached to all go out for dinner and bowling. And then everyone can confront each other.
No offense, M, but your husband belongs on Jerry Springer at this point...(dunno if you have that down under)
I do NOT understand why you are taking this from him or why it is exactly you are so so upset about him? Do you really love him THAT much? Or are you just freaking out about being alone?
