I think you could be right about the hours we keep being a way to avoid each other. I'm going to see if I can change things a bit. It will be a challenge for a real night owl!
I think I like the idea of a foam topper. I might like it, too! Time to go shopping!
I do have some resentment... I resent the way she has chosen to handle our troubles. But, I think I get over my resentments way better than she does. As far as I can tell, once she resents something, it is stuck, and permanent. I can't even remember what I resented last week!