I read an interesting article about women, 42-44 that havent had children.. what your W did is pretty typical.. they flip. What is the point of me as a woman? Did I make the right decision? Am I losing my youthfulness/beauty? I really do see this as being about her.
Thanks for coming back and posting.. keep posting hey, we are all still here (and many of us are all still single, so you are not alone! Only Kalni's H has come back, and thats in body only and lacking in spirit, LOL, she would agree I am sure).
I am sorry you had alot of anger at your W, but maybe that is a good ting, else you can get depressed if you turn it inward. Its good that she told you that she felt a "tremendous loss".
Can you still not try and be her friend? (as I am doing and he is seeing someone else now!!!!)... is it really too hard? Seems a shame to lose her from your life if you yern for a connectin with her.
Also, you are young.. I am sure that somehow, love will make it back into your life.
Good to hear from you! Al x
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
