What is your W's parents like? what is their R for a role model? Your W has some deep issues for sure. Do you know if she was molested as a young girl? would she have ever admitted that? Also, she also lives in a house with 5 males, and just that could result in some resentment against males but I don't think to the level she holds it.
Hmmmm..... I like her parents. But..... Before I knew them, I know that her father drank to much. I get the feeling he may have been physically abusive or close to it to her mother. (I don't know, I am just putting together snippets I've heard over the years, mostly a long time ago.) I think that her mother issued some kind of ultimatum, and he actually fell in line. I don't know the whole story. I'm almost certain there are lingering issues, quite possibly some that I don't know about, and never will.
Living with the 5 guys certainly didn't help her attitude, the attitude predates the kids. All of us being guys may amplify it, but it was already there.
