Come here to pick a girl's brain or talk to some pro marriage friends that have been through it, like your guy, J. Talking about this kind of stuff when you are in the position you are in, and she is in the position she is in, is playing with fire AND sends the wrong message to her.
I commend you for telling her how you felt about your wife, finally, because you have spent a lot of time with her without telling her that. But, if you mean it you have to show this with actions, too.
Just keep moving forward in the right direction. I'm hoping the holidays will bless you with good things.
