Thanks so much for posting. I have become a better person as a result of this process. Lots of counseling and have become a devout Christian. I think that happens to a lot of people. It is so difficult to try to forgive someone who has caused so much pain in so many lives. The selfishness is just so hard to deal with especially this time of year.
I honestly don't know how my walk away wife can look in the mirror. She apparently has a lot of trouble with this, because she can't look a lot of her former friends in the eye. She is really forcing her relationship on our kids. I find it very hard to know what to say to my kids when it comes to this relationship. She had him around well before we were separated and told them that he was just a friend. She must take them for complete idiots.
