For the Guy with Kids and a WW Vinte (20)

[Sugar and Spice]

(((H4H))) despite what you told her, she is a woman who is VERY INTERESTED in you and is going to see that a 3 hour phone call sends a message. You could have been talking about auto parts and the gross national product, you were still talking to HER about it (you see?). Its kinda a girl thing, but its also part of the dance we do when we like someone, but we say we don't, eventhough we really do, and its safer to say that we are just "friends" because then it takes longer for us to admit to ourselves how we really feel. I'm not trying to bash you, but you have to recognize that any attention you pay to B is a signal to her that no matter what comes out of your mouth, you are contacting her, confiding in her, etc...

I thought I was doing the right thing, letting her know how I felt about the wife. That I'm in no position to date anyone right now. I still consider myself married and besides, too messed up inside.

She doesn't HEAR what you say. She HEARS what you do!