just when I thought things were stable...

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havent posted in a while, here is a horrible update, any suggestions/help appreciate it.

Gf is living with stbx full time

In a month her 2 kids will come to live with her, d5 will share room with her d9 and my s10 with her s6. A disaster in the making.

MIL just called me telling me she saw a huge engagement ring on GF (their is 2mths old at best)

S10 taking it even worse, he was the one telling me about her kids moving in, before he knew it he told me he would live with me if her kids were to live there or if her dad married her, well, both things are going on.

When alone stbx half listens to my suggestions, but later I guess gf talks him out of it, he wont even take my calls today (no, his stuff STILL in my house), he stays whatever I need to tell him to text him!!1 how can i discussed the hurt of my son or reason with him over one liners over the phone???

I'm just baffled at his stupidity and rashness, gf obviously has found her meal ticket (her kids at in MS, will be coming to stbx's after December) I really thought he couldnt' surprise me anymore.

We already put down visitation on the sep. agreement, and short of hiring a L and fighting him my son will have to go to his house (mon-weds morning and every other sunday). I know my son needs his dad, but I dont' want to force him to go, stbx says he just cannot get his way and not see his own father.

aRRGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

Trying hard to have faith to be able to help my babies, I did find a Rainbows group which actually is organized by a church of my denomination, I will be taking kids there when they start their sessions in January. For now I gues I'll send a phone # to stbx of a C so he can go with my son.