Hey Jeff, you know I try to give your w the beneift of the doubt but sometimes she just makes me want to scream!

I would say that you stack up quite well in the h department. My h takes out the garbage. That's it. But I guess you do things that arent a priorty for her rather than the things that are.

And let me ask you something. What if you hated clutter, were really bothered by it and your w kept clutter everywhere? How would that make you feel?

And she does seem like a very cold person. You have to go with your gut on whether she dislikes physical closeness and intimacy. That could be a lonngggg road ahead for you if she does.

Last edited by beginnersmind; 11/25/08 08:20 PM.