I am swimming in Soap Suds!

[kelaaron]

OMG-I take a couple of hours off and I miss everything!!!!!!!!!

I'm throwing my H in the pot too. Just cuz I'm and really finished with the rollercoaster.

Hope-thank you for piping in with MT. I just wanted to blast her H so I said nothing. I knew you would say what I wanted in a much calmer, more rational way.

MT-I second everything every one has said. If he decides to leave, don't stop him. Don't beg him to come back. He has to be the one to make that decision, unless you don't want him there. If it is simply "under these circumstances" then it is his choice to make. And not having your home to come home to might just be a wake up call.

BG-throw his Ass out. Sorry, not real DB I know but I think that would be the last straw. Unfortunately, I don't think he would have said it if it weren't true. IDK, you have to do the math, and then you have to ask him about it. Yes I sort of agree with Hope, except that he may have asked her to let him tell you, and she may just waiting for the right time to really attack you.

I am so sorry this is happening to any of us. But I am so thankful that we have found each other to support us through this.