Had to add something interesting that was just said...
I've gotten free tickets to attend this wine tasting event tomorrow. I hesitate to ask H to do anything at the moment, but thought I'd mention it. We live in a town at the end of the train line, so it's not terribly convenient for people to come out here after work if they don't live in the area. I mentioned it to H, and he said that if I asked around at work and nobody else wanted to come, then he'd come. So I said I'd ask my friend X, let's call him Sam. He said "Sam, that's a guy???" He seemed shocked, and I clarified that I am 90% sure he is gay (which is true, I am pretty sure of this). Nonetheless, I really didn't expect that reaction. I was pretty sure H wouldn't care at all, and I wasn't trying to make him jealous by any means. Wow though, am truly surprised by the reaction.
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!