I am so very sorry. You don't deserve this. Your H has some serious anger issues he needs to deal with -- I know, because so have I. He is being such an idiot -- deep down he can't possibly want to alienate you any further, not really. So WTH is wrong with him?
He's become so emotionally insensitive that he can't see what's happening. His spirit has become so "shut down" that he now steps on yours.
He needs help, for your sake as well as his. That is most obvious. But I fear he just won't see or acknowledge this fact.
