Mike, been seeing you post on other threads for awhile but never got caught up on your sitch. Something led me here today, of all days, to read up on you and how you were doing.
I've got to say that you sound peaceful, calm. It is a good feeling and if what I sense is true, hold onto it. You deserve some downtime after all of the hell that you have been through. You have reached the light at the end of the tunnel. Tired and dirty, yes, but you are there, with pride, strength and honor intact. Take some time to reflect on what you learned, then get on, getting on.
Oh yeah, and I agree with what others said about time with your D, who cares what W intentions are, it is time with the kid. For my sitch, I asked me W to please check with me first if she ever needed someone to watch the kids while they were with her. It will save us money and give me irreplaceable time with my children.
Married 6 years D4 D4 S2 seperated: 7/15/08 Dbomb: 9/21/08 status: seperated in same home, meeting with mediator moving toward D current thread
