Cleaning out Clutter - ? For Men

[MsMelancoly]

So here's what I wrote my H today:
Hey J, It was good to see you on Sunday, Thanx for helping me.

So I guess, last night didn't work out. No problamo, I'm cool! Mondays are rough, so I'm sure you were tired. I've had a rough 2 weeks & was beat, myself.

I know why, you think that I'm mad at you & why you are afraid of me. You forget, I know you. I know how you deal with relationship problems, the only way you have learned & know how to (& were taught by your parents). I understand. It's ok, You can choose not to be afraid of me. Really, I'm not mad at you. I control my own happiness now.

You missed out on a yummy pizza & an excellent martini - if I don't say so myself!! Guess, I forgot to offer that. Well, maybe another time if you choose.

Have a great day!!

Take Care ~~A~~

PS. If you go to NE will you please get my things from your mom? If you go to the good life, safe travels, have fun & watch out .... the bridges may be icey ... even in the summer! <lol>

His response:
I had to take Bob to court last night I had forgotten that. Yes my mom said she could not afford to mail the stuff so I will get it. Oh god I am under so much stress with work and Bob I cant even begin to start. Talk to you soon ok.

My response:
I understand. I can't even imagine the stress you must have. I am very proud of you & know you can handle it! If you need to vent about Bob or work, I'm here for you. You can call me anytime. I will be a good listener (which I haven't been) - I promise. (I will stop the us talks too - my bad). L8ter fancy pants F, ~~A~~