Cleaning out Clutter - ? For Men

[MsMelancoly]

Hi Ali, Thanx for visiting my part of the world!!!!

And thanx, for the update that today is communication day. I sent my H an email, put my fate ruine necklace on & when I got to work he had emailed me back. Yeah!!!! It seems he had to take his friend to court last night & is very stressed from that & his job.

You are right I have nothing to loose by R talks. You see this is my plan, to make my H deal with things. Maybe it's only dealing with his possessions ... but it's a start.

My H's things - aaahhh - I've only delivered some of them, probably 50% is still at my house. He said he would help. I said, I was holding him to it Taking my H his things is a strange feeling. I remember when my H took his things when I was home. I felt sad, that it was the end & each thing he took, was one less piece of him there, one less thing to hold on to. Taking him, his things makes me feel in control. I am doing what I want to do & it feels good to have less sh*t in the house. I wonder ... does he know feel like I did??? Almost like I'm pushing him out of my life - yet he chose to leave. Really, I'm not pushing him out of my life - just pushing his things into his new life.