Leaving happy behind, looking for contentment...

[Silent Chrleader]

I don't know about you BobbiJo, but I see all these men posting on your thread and it makes me realize that there are really good men in the world who are not only willing but eager to have a good woman like you (and me?) who would appreciate them for the gift they are!

You and your kids don't have to put up with his crap! You and your kids deserve better. Maybe your H is dealing with some sort of addiction here, and I sincerely believe that people can change. They do every day. But they have to want to. That's the really tough one for me to accept. That he may not want to. But, the truth is that if they don't wake up to their own "issues", they will never have a truly intimate fulfilling relationship, not even with someone as wonderful and giving as you. And that's his loss!! But, it doesn't have to be yours.

((((((((((hugs))))))))))