Things haven't changed much...H is home, staying in the guest room....still spending time with MOW...
Overall, I would say things are better than they were 16 months ago for me....but we are a long way from being "normal". His temper has died down alot...don't see it as often...the confrontations are fewer and farther between...there have been some good times in the past couple of months.
H is in IC...which is helping I think...there are alot of issues from his childhood popping up...which when you hear some of the things, do coordinate with how he feels about some things...??? I don't know?
Limboland sucks...I've been contemplating giving an ultimatum after the holidays.....don't know about it yet....but I'm emotionally ready to light the fire and accept the consequences. I can't continue to live this way. I love him, and I want to have a better M than before....but until he gives up MOW, it isn't going to work.
I've been reading your thread....you sound good...you sound strong. I know you are hurting...I'm sorry. BF needs to figure things out and you are giving him that opportunity....bless you for that!
Hugs!
BA
Me:43 H:48 M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs 2 kids ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07 H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08 Affair continues Back home but not emotionally
