Cleaning out Clutter - ? For Men

[AliSuddenly]

You may as well say these things MrsM... what have you got to lose at this point? And maybe he will do a little thinking whilst he is away in Malaysia.

Its good that he emailed and came out of the hosue nad offered to come by and see you.. but shame he didnt. I bet he did WANT to, but then chickened out..he seems avoidant in the extreme, like my ex and otheres on these boards (thats how come we are all here I think ! If we had emptionally healthy/open partners, we wouldnt all have been blindsided like this!).

Well done for clearing out his things, that was brave of you and no, I dont suppose he minded and was probably embarressed that he wasnt able to face up to getting his stuff.

My ex left some CDs here (and all our photos of course) but I would never have the guts to broach that with him. I guess its just past now. Maybe one day he will want some photos, they arent just me, but 9 years of friends and family too. Sad isnt it?

How are you coping then, now that you gave his stuff back?
Al xxx