My heart goes out to you and your precious children. Your D4 is definitely cycling. There is just a little too much upheaval still for her little person mind to soak up. Give as many hugs as you can. I know you are being encouraging to her in her R with her dad. That's the best you can do.
I'm thankful this Thanksgiving that XH's family lives on the other side of the country so it's not an issue.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!