Hi Mandyloo, Glad to hear that auntie will keep in touch with you again. Yes, family members and friends often don't know how to handle the sitch. Have a lovely week.
Three cheers for auntie!!! I was so pleased to read that she contacted you. I am glad that she hadn't held bad feelings for you, but didn't want to be in the middle.
Take Care.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
Thank you for your kind and encouraging words on my thread. I am glad that I was able to give you some kind of support. Regarding being at this more or less the same time, I just noticed that we even registered on this BB the same day! The time could not be closer!
Yes, I guess you are right - one day they will be sorry. But I guess it will be too late. I am not at the stage yet I could be H's friend. I still hurt too much.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
Truelove and BeingMe, thanks for popping in and asking about me, I have been rather busy shopping and having my garden all fenced in and made neat and tidy somedays I dont get to pop on here, everything is well, havent heard anymore from aunt, to be truthful I aint really bothered at least I did my bit and let her know my gratitude, the rest is up to her. One thing did happen yesterday when I came home there was an xmas card through the post from ex to son, gone are the nice thoughtful words he wrote last year saying how much he loved him and get in contact, this year in a scruffy writing it just read "HOPE TO SEE YOU SOON, DAD", I gave it to son and he just threw it on the floor and said what is the point of that, it is strange that he sent the card so early we used to get our cards the week before christmas when he had wrapped his presents. But I suppose it is good that he took a moment to remember his child and even send a card, more than he did for his birthday. Wonder how he feels that it as come around to christmas once more and he still has son's presents from last year hidden in the wardrobe at the love nest. It cant be easy for him I know, but why cant he bury his pride and step up to the plate, for his sons sake, it is hurting ex but it is himself that is hurting himself, oh well we will have a brilliant christmas as we have all the time we have been on our own, god bless you two soulmates
Hi Mandyloo, I hope for your son that he will change his mind about his father and they will have some contact again. Apartently, the son - father relationship is very important for a boy. But I can imagine that your son will have difficulties in looking up to his father after what he did to him and you.
I wish you a lovely week-end and have fun with your neat and tidy garden. Take care.
Truelove, I wish you a lovely weekend also, take care in everything you do. I have another update and it is a good one, finally after three and half years battling ex has paid a cheque into my solicitors for the said amount he offered me from the house, a measly amount in comparison to what he walked away with and what he has still got tied up in properties, but at least its there. still think there is something strange going on as he as now paid son and myself up all in the space of a month, taken the house of the market to rent out instead of sell, packed his business up, it is like he his tidying his life up all of a sudden, now all that he needs to do is tidy up the life he has had for the past three years and tidy wifey away, oh how I wish. but we'll get on and leave it to god to do when hes ready. have fun folks cos I sure am going to
Mandy, I am so glad he is coughing up the money he owes. Wonder what's going on there?
Hope you have a great weekend!
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
The reason that wifey is busy tarting my old home up is the fact that they are putting her relation in there to rent, she is only a young girl, no disrespect had to leave school to have a baby is without a man in her life for her and the child, so he will be getting the rent paid by the state, I think this is something else that wifey has pushed ex into and something else that aint gonna work for him, but what the heck when will he learn
I was so pleased to read that she contacted you. I am glad that she hadn't held bad feelings for you, but didn't want to be in the middle. 