I think the path you have now taken here is absolutely right on target. I think its VERY important to not be an enabler of the retarded and you most certainly can't be in a position where you don't have clear and exact explanation for what's going on for your kids. YOUR actions have to be 100% about your kids.
When they truly grasp what's going on, indecision will be like a knife through their hearts that just keeps getting twisted. What matters is keeping the pain for them to a minimum. It's their integrity that is hurt by her actions of pretending none of this matters to them.
Stay calm - focus on your kids and everything will eventually come to rest in a better place.
Kerry - Thanks Kerry - that means a lot to me. Been a traumatic morning. We had it out again. She is freaking. Now she wants to go to her parents for T-Day. She feels I am trying to take them away from her.
M 43 W 44 M 17 T 22 S16,12,9 Bomb 2/05/08 I served her 1/06/09 S'd 3/15/09 D'd 12/21/09
"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.
