2008 = Crazy Year (Numb 19)

[Sugar and Spice]

WTF is W thinking??????????
Friend wants NOTHING to do with W right now... will ruin their holiday and I so agree!

She is not thinking. She still believes that she and OM have it under control and no one is the wiser. Magical Thinking is stupid at best and is often painful to watch. Hang in there.

[lost_in_space]

I think I will fall over soon!

W spoke to me today. She asked me for some forms that D16 needed - she texted me about them this am.

Hmmmm - no W I haven't received any message from you. Must have been your other husband (no I didn't say that!).

Then I went and changed interior mats in W vehicle and went to wash D16's car.

As the Beach Boys said - Fun Fun Fun

[Tawnya]

LOL {{{Lost}}} I love that you can still make me laugh and have fun with it regardless of the craziness eh??

Yes..fog thinking is certainly interesting to watch outside of the fog isn't it?

Hope your day is good..and, hey, if you are washing cars, I have one that could use it

Tawnya

[lost_in_space]

Hey (((Tawnya)))

If we can't laugh, would go even more insane I think.

As for the car wash, no problem. Bring it on over.

[hopeful4her]

Stopping by to say hi.

Doesn't seem to be much drama right now for you, so that's good. I know that getting ANY kind of communication from the wife throws me off.

Have a good one.

BTW, saying that just reminded me of an old George Carlin response.

"A good one? I already have a good one, now I just need a BIGGER one."

[Tawnya]

{{Lost}} YOU are right..without being able to laugh, we'd all be mental by now (or some of us more mental LOL)!

If only Canada wasn't a BIT far from NC..I'd bring the little car right over

Tawnya

[Sugar and Spice]

(((Lost))) just keep your head up and do the best you can. I really don't have much advice other than continue doing what you are doing and operate from a position of truth.

When do W and DD leave? Did you get to have dinner with her?

(((Hugs)))

And I love that you can still laugh even with all that you have gone through, feels good huh?

[lost_in_space]

Ok - need some quick thoughts...

S13 has hockey game tonight. He and I have left. W wanted to go - but D11 sick and D16 not home.

I didn't realize D11 wasn't going to go because she wasn't feeling good.

So W gets in just before we leave and says to me - "thanks for the consideration". Took me a while but I now realize it was because I didn't offer to stay home with D11 so she could go to the game since she is heading out of town with D16.

So - should I offer to let her go to the game. A big part of me says no f'g way. But the other part...

HELP!!!! Thoughts???

[Tawnya]

Hmm..maybe you could ask which one of you would like to go and which should stay..sometimes, as wives, you DO feel like you are always the ones staying home with the kids when they are sick, etc, and most of the time you don't mind, but it IS nice to be asked..I know this is not a "normal" sitch..but that's my thoughts about it?!

I don't think you can go wrong either way on this one

Tawnya

[davidswife]

I'd make the offer.

dw