I just know that the current status quo of him sleeping downstairs on the couch, us hanging out some in the evenings, doing stuff with the kids, would go on until he gets a pain in his back from the couch or gets grumpy about something and has another meldown.
You are right, K, this will go on as long as I am willing to play along.....I am so tired of playing.
At Halloween time here, he was upset that I mentioned him getting his own house, moving out, etc whenever we were together b/c he said he wasn't sure about it all but I kept bringing it up, and that was upsetting for him....????