Originally Posted By: hoosiermama

I tell you, every time I look at the $2000 worth of drums, I start thinking...wow, that would just about catch me up on my mortgage payments....

He couldn't really hate me any more than he already does, right? At least he'd have a reason for it....


I had no idea he has $2,000 worth of drums sitting there. If I had $10 for groceries, and a broken furnace and a cold snap, I would sell them in a skinny minute, absolutely. If I had notified him, and let him know of the family's needs, and he didn't respond? I'd sell the damned things so fast his head would spin.

Because no, he can't treat you any worse than he already is, and your daughter comes first. If the family court judge decides that you need to reimburse him out of some final settlement, so be it, but let's see, in the meantime???

Drums . . . groceries . . . drums . . . heat for my home . . . drums . . .

Puppy