I delivered your coffee to you on your thread. How is that for service??
What would be different for me would be to leave him entirely alone. Go to work, care for the kids, do things for myself, without including him in any of it. Not call/text/reach out (not that I do that much anymore, anyway). Live like we are not living together anymore, period.
A bigger 180 would be to tell the kids what is up, tell the family what is up, and start living the life he claims he wants to live. But that would be a huge movement 48 hours before the holiday.....
