Seems she is thowing herself out to you a bit lately. Suppose you got to be careful of her thinking she is trying enough and you not hearing/seeing (Venus v Mars thing) and letting yourself get sucked in to be spat out again.
How's about to a similar line (if you didn't say that). That would of been nice, maybe if you'd like me over for a meal another time we can plan for it so I don't miss out. (please word better yourself obviously)