Morning All- Wow it locked while I was typing this morning!!
The evening was great. Hard to believe. H called right at the end of the game, was a bit more relaxed, just pissed, which he is right it almost looked like they were throwing the game on purpose. Pretty sad, records set for the most points allowed by the other team EVER. Thigpen, was terrible, just sad. Herm needs to go. But H wasn't as irate at least. I think if they aren't going to show up maybe they should be docked their pay for that week. IMO! H was home by 5:00, which was good, I was under the sink because the garbage disposal had clogged with potato peels. Yippee, had a bucket was trying to take the pipes apart, I was on the right track, but H finished for me took everything apart and cleaned it up. He was in a pretty good mood other than just not understanding what the Hell they were doing yesterday. They played for a quarter and 1/2 and that was it. Do they want to be embarrassed??
SD24 didn't bring the boyfriend, but he is supposed to be coming on Thursday. H is always great around my parents no matter what is going on with us in all of this. Something too H likes my parents and H has said he doesn't like OW's family or friends, so that is something I hope he keeps in mind.
Dinner was good, fried fish, fried potatoes, Ham, coleslaw, blackberry pie and then I also made some pecan tarts to eat and for H to take to work with him today. H said I don't want to share my tarts with anyone! I also make these things that look like cinnamon rolls made with pie crust, put butter and cinnamon and sugar on them and roll them up. Everyone just loves them so my mom ate some of them too! Had a nice dinner. H's phone rings towards the end, I was thinking great, I know SD was wondering who it was too, but was a guy from work thinking he was doing great on the football picks had 9 right at that point, but someone else had 11, so he didn't win. My mom and dad leave and SD is getting ready to go back to house sitting for her Grandma, and H tells her to sit.
H makes her wait for like 5 min, so I am sure she was wondering what was going on. H says are you sure you are going to graduate? SD gets defensive, and says YES, with attitude and all that. She assures us she will, H tells her that if the professor is asking where she is at, that probably isn't good. I didn't say too much, but she keeps saying I am going to graduate, but what if I don't why does it matter. I told her not to go there. She is like why not? I tell her we are paying for her to live here and she can't keep going to school forever with out getting her degree. (well and not live off of us anyway). She thinks because she is paying for her own school she should be able to do what she wants. I said yeah, to a point. She gets an attitude and acts like her mom and that just pisses H off, and doesn't make me real happy either, but I tried to stay out of it, but I wanted her to understand that if the professor is asking if anyone has seen you, I don't think it is good. Some will keep roll and drop you if you don't show, others don't care, BUT!!
So after she left, H was making the margaritas. He was upset, no all I took was a sip off the top of the 3 he made, so I was good. He was OK, we talked about what to get her. H doesn't want to give her money as she will piss it away, so H thinks we will pay her insurance for one year as her graduation gift. So that way we know she has insurance for 1 year at least! LOL. H said I don't really want her on our insurance anymore, that way if she does have a wreck then our insurance won't go up too. H didn't know he had broke the musical christmas tree so since he was in a good mood, I asked him about it. When he saw it H says, Oh I am sorry, I didn't know that had happened. So he superglued it back together was an easier fix than we had thought! YEah, so it works again.
We watched Sunday night football, H laid on the couch, I sat at the end. I was dozing in and out, H was tossing and turning. He had turned around and had put his head at my end and then finally after the game and around 11:00 said, are you going to bed? I think he copped a feel at some point too, but I was a bit a sleep, and I think I may have been doing that also, when I noticed where my hand was. So I get up and say are you going to bed, H said No. I think about 2:00 H did come and get in bed, I was sleeping on his side, so he got in on the other side. This morning, I cut my leg on the clay pigeon thrower that was in the bedroom, cause I had to get it out of the dining room for dinner, it wouldn't stop bleeding, H noticed and made me put something on it and then put a big gauze pad and taped it to my leg. Was a bit funny. He was running late because he shaved off his beard. I don't think it is MLC related, H had been growing it off and on for a while, had it grown out for about 2 months, and was trimming it this morning, then decided to shave it off completely. I was doing my hair and I said are you taking it off completely? H said I guess so. I didn't say anything to him this morning, since he was back to being the normal H at this point. I may wait and see how it all goes Thanksgiving weekend. So I was happy that he didn't call her last night or anything.
Hope, I was laughing so loud on your ham and dog story!! That was too funny. I bet someone was pretty upset for being hamless. Last year during the ice storm, I put stuff from the refrigerator outside to stay when we didn't have power and I had to watch the cats, they kept getting into things!!!
I am so glad that you had a good night. You really needed a good family evening, with no stress. Now we are all onward to Thanksgiving!
The Irish Setter's name was Growler, and he was quite a character. He brought home several other funny things over the years. One July 4th weekend he came home with boneless chicken breasts...hot off someone's BBQ, and anouther time proudly carrying a huge stuffed bear, almost as tall as he was. We did put that our in front of our house for awhile, thinking maybe some kid would come looking for it, but no one ever did. He kept us laughing until the day he died. I still miss that dog.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
Me too. It was nice, the whole if you didn't know what was going on you would never know something was up. Which my Mom and Dad know there are issues, and that he liked someone else, but they don't know to the extent of his like. I guess.
morning or afternoon finally dragging myself in! glad H was in a better mood yesterday, and that dinner went good! I was wondering how things went! dont say those bad ice words lol, I dont want another one of those! the generator isnt here yet for the winter lol! Our yard dog trooper, he would bring home dead deer! literally be gone a day or so to drag them back, or beavers or all kinds of things, man i miss that dog, but not whatever I was gonna wake up to lol! its sunny i am so glad, not windy here for once!
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
Been actually doing some homework tonight, can you believe that one???? Well H wasn't here when I got home. He had been here, the mail was in and dogs were in and upstairs. Friday I had taken a coat in to be cleaned to his uncle's dry cleaners, so before the whole thing Friday night I asked H to pick it up because they close before I get home. H said he would just might need to remind him. I had forgotten to tell him when I left this morning, so I figured I would tell him tomorrow. Got home and it was hanging up, so I thought I would call and thank him. Don't know where he was, there was some noise and loud talking or a loudspeaker of some kind off and on. H wasn't very talkative at all, short one word answers. I said thanks, told him I was going to remind him tomorrow. Asked how much, H said I don't know. I asked again, H said I don't know $5 or $6 doesn't matter wasn't much, nothing to worry about. I asked how his day was, H said OK, I said where you busy, H said sorta. That was it. Talk to you later. I hate this. I hate this I hate this. Have I said I hate this? LOL. I know. Didn't ask where he was. Am watching Monday Night Football, pretty good game, going to be long. Doubt I make it till the end. Think I am going to shut the bedroom door tonight if H isn't home before I got to bed. Not sure why. Hope everyone has a great night!
The night sucked the morning sucked worse! Well yesterday was OW's Birthday....how did I find that out? Went out to start up H's jeep this morning and a pink receipt fell out of the door, It was from a flower shop, a dozen long stem red roses and two balloons. I was crushed.
H didn't get home until after 2:00. He slept out on the couch, I got him up this morning, didn't say anything to him, him nothing to me. I go outside to start the jeep, it wasn't covered in frost because he didn't get home until late. So I come in after I find the receipt, I am very upset, not crying just can't breath. I look at H and he says what is wrong, takes me a bit to say you bought her roses and balloons. H responds shortly it was her Birthday. I just looked at him. Then I said, and I wish I wouldn't have, You never bought me a dozen roses, H said I have bought you lots of stuff. I said yes you have bought me lots of stuff. I think I said something like and you don't think that hurts me? I tell him, I told you I am not going to share, H says fine I will be out of here tonight. I said I don't want you to leave, but I can't do this. Why didn't you want to talk to me last night, H says I didn't not want to. I said you didn't talk gave me short one word answers. He doesn't say anything. I said Are you even trying to come back to me? H says I was. I said did she know this? I says I would think so. I so wish I would have said, giving a gift of 12 red roses, doesn't make something you aren't trying to work on thing with your wife. But I didn't think of that until later. Damn it. I said if you want to work I don't want you to leave. I told him I worried about him last night he H never really said anything else to me. Then he left.
I wish I wouldn't have said anything, Yes I needed to say again I am not sharing, but why did I say You never bought me 12 roses. I wish I would have said that you don't let someone know you are working on your marriage by giving them red roses! I could just kick myself.
So who knows what this will lead to now. I may get home tonight and everything of his will be gone. I hope not, and I know I didn't over react, because red roses don't say I don't want to be with you.
So here I am at work, on 3 hrs sleep and now maybe without my H.
Sorry this part here after the question it should be He says I would think so.
I said did she know this? HE says I would think so. I so wish I would have said, giving a gift of 12 red roses, doesn't make something you aren't trying to work on thing with your wife.
MT-I'm sorry about your evening and your morning. My words of kindness and wisdom seem to be gone right now. Sorry. I'm sure I can find a rental house on the island if we need it.
Let's see what Hope has to say and maybe I'll find some inspiration.
If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.
