Mike - Adultery means nothing since about 1973 apparently. They changed the law as couples would spend fortunes arguing on who was to blame and although adultery is completely wrong, the adulterer will obviously argue they were driven to it etc. Still don't get how that justifies it though, still skewed.
I accept I won't get 50/50, but I'm staying there for now so it looks like I'm bargaining when it comes to it. Will try and draw up my new mediation stuff in next 2 days and send to new sols to look over.
Definately got to get back to not ever losing it with her again. Couple of lapses and think justified but I gain nothing from them.
Feeling a bit poorly today. Not sleeping well and so much going on in my life/head at the moment think it's all getting on top of me. Need to sort out 1 thing at a time and looks like car sorted and insured by Thursday, possible property (though to expensive on my own so relying on a mate wanting to move in with me) and possible new job. Would love to have own place and new job to add to the car for January. Make 2009 the year for me
