I'm so sorry to hear that your H is continuing to exhibit such hurtful behavior. All of the holiday stress just gets compounded when bad behavior and lies are piled on you.
My H has been in a funk for a week -- he's a wreck because my family is flying up for the holliday, and it's the first time he's had to see them since the third bomb when he moved out. Last night he said he didn't know if he'd come over for Thanksgiving. I just told him that we'd like him to be here, but that he should do whatever he feels is necessary.
It makes me sad to think that a year ago, I looked ahead and thought that "this time next year" everything would be settled one way or another. I can't believe that here I am a year later, and even though the sitch has improved, I'm still slogging through this mess.
I hope you have something to look forward to this holiday. What are your plans?
Well, I guess I need to go work on some PMA - kind of low right now.
