Truelove I wish to thank you, you are a great friend to me on these boards and always pop by and post to me. I think we have been at this more or less the same time, I am personally at a stage now where I could be ex's friend should he ever want me to be, but I feel he got himself into something he cant get out of. Just keep being strong truelove because I truly believe that one day these men are going to see and regret what they left behind and remember all the nasty words and actions throughout, they will be sorry honey but dont let him get you down, love and hugs always