Wow Rob, thats some epiphany! I am not surprised, theres a lot of Scorpio/Pluto stuff going on right now, shedding of skin, like the Scorpionic symbol, the snake (not THAT snake!) .. you are emerging from your chrysalis! (another Pluto image).. ok, tjhe astrologer in me is getting excited here to see "astrology in action" .. but you seem to have turned a corner and I am so happy for you. Onwards and upwards.. this is the end of a 12 year period for you, all of us, but particularly Sagis/Scorpio's.

Kalni is right, you DO deserve better. Your W sounded very mean and controlling and has a lot of childhood baggage. I know you loved her, but a higher love is coming to you....

You've come so far! Its brilliant, good for you
Al x


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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