Six months later--the truth is out there

[NNP1965]

I agree, we will never be free of them and there will come atime that we will have to grin and bear it for the sake of our children. MY BIL & SIL are going through it now. They have been D'd since 1999 and their oldest son just got married.

My SIL just told me again last weekend that she has come to terms with what he H did, but there are some things she will never forgive him for and taking away their family is one of them.

Much of my sheer anger at my H stems from the fact that I don't understand how we together decided to have two children, but now he alone gets to decide that I will be a single mom!