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YR:

Thanks for your input! I think I'm in the right "place" emotionally to issue an ultimatum. I'm so tired of the games and him lying to my face daily. I don't even ask questions and he volunteers false information to cover his tracks. He must think I'm the dumbest person on the planet. After the holidays I think I'm going to put my foot down and stick to it. I can't live this way...I shouldn't have to. If his choice is to leave then I guess that's what I'll have to face. I'm not giving up on my M....I'm just not willing to be lied to anymore and to have him think it's acceptable to behave the way he is.

Thank you so much for posting and answering all of our questions! You have no idea how much your wisdom has helped so many of us here!

Have a great Thanksgiving...in case I don't get the chance to talk to you before then!

Hugs!

BA