Don't fear the D.

You cannot control if/when he files, so why worry about it?

Think about it like this: Divorce is a fiscal tool used by courts to divide assets. That's it. Not so scary anymore is it? \:\)

You have friends here. Lean on us.

H: 38
W: 36
S: 8
S: 5
M: 16
Bomb: 8/25/08
OM: 9/21/08
EA (Possible PA) with co-worker since 5/08 (at least...)
Sep: 9/21/08
D Filed 9/23/08
My Situation