you sound good.. thanks so much for my post and my 2x 4 you gave me... I needed it.
I struggled with the ring thing too... I can't wear it much now because it hurts to see what it represented .. if my H ever comes home we will both get new rings when we fully recomitt to our marriage... I wear my band but not the engagement and band together anymore... it takes me to a happy place and right now I'm so hurt... My H took his off the day he told me of the OW... ouch!!
Personal decision... I would play with it... you can take it off and then wear it again ... I do both actually.
What are you doing for thanksgiving??
Me: 38/H:40 M:7yrs TG: 10yrs 2Girls: 4yr & 7 month old Bomb 8/22/08 OW/EA/PA 8/23/08 with 25yr old Moved out 9/22/08
