Ok sorry have been busy crazy, apparently now H is refusing to use email as communication so I have been in contact with mediators giving them H's postal address and getting a visitation schedule for DS10 during football and post football.

I am sure H is pissed off to no end and now I do not care. He needs to grow up. He was cake eating and running naked through rivers of frosting and now he got it taken away. Oh Well. This Plan A was not a life style of sharing my H. Of course he told DD17 that it was perfect...LOL yeah ok.

Anyways got the stuff done with the mediators, nervous cuz I know he's gonna get pissed off again but this is what life as a divorced person could be like and he needs to feel it to see hey maybe this is not the life I wanted.

How are you all?

Me-38 H-38
Married 18years
Daughter-17 & Son-9
Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08
Left home 5/08/08
Moved in with OW 08/01/08

The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family.
-- Lee Iacocca