Your 17 year old is lucky she didn't get smacked in the mouth when she said "...when you're a guest in someones house you should be neater".
HOW DARE THAT CHILD SPEAK TO HER MOTHER LIKE THAT.
I have to agree. I'm guessing your D is speaking out of hurt and frustration but she crossed the line and should be called on it.
My kids are much younger than yours but no matter what is happening between W and I, I expect them to be nothing but respectful to her. Related to this, I never speak negatively about my W around the kids.
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford
