Is she is or is she ain't (my baby)?

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If she calls I'll answer but I won't initiate contact.

I've followed this policy almost from day one. There has only been a handful of incidents where I have contacted he in 22 months. However, I don't know if my W has even noticed because she contacts me almost daily.

Mostly, if I need to talk to her, I wait until she calls me and then I add in an "Oh, by the way ....." I had to do that a few times in the beginning but not so much lately.