I've decided not to contact X or do anything for her this week. Last year when I did the above we were still legally married, now we're not. It may also be of benefit to her to experience a holiday isolated from me and the kids. The first holidays following our separtation she had the kids. If she calls I'll answer but I won't initiate contact.

This should be interesting.


"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib
Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12
Bomb and OM 12/15/06
Separated 01/02/07
Divorced 05/13/08
X married OM(OMH) 08/2009
Married 06/09/13