I've decided not to contact X or do anything for her this week. Last year when I did the above we were still legally married, now we're not. It may also be of benefit to her to experience a holiday isolated from me and the kids. The first holidays following our separtation she had the kids. If she calls I'll answer but I won't initiate contact.
This should be interesting.
"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12 Bomb and OM 12/15/06 Separated 01/02/07 Divorced 05/13/08 X married OM(OMH) 08/2009 Married 06/09/13