Lanzo,
I certainly agree that more self-initiative regarding the M is needed. I don't see a problem with asking her what her priority is for the chore list.

If I start cleaning an area of importance to her, she will often join in or take over. This happened this past weekend.

I've spent many weekends cleaning the house by myself--plenty of self-initiative with little notice from my W. It's important to clean those areas that are causing her stress.

CL


Last edited by Concerned_Listener; 11/25/08 01:20 AM.
CL 53 W 54
M 20 yrs.
03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL
10-14' Piecing

"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."

----Tao Te Ching