Interesting--one big reason we have so much debt is that we couldn't communicate about money. The finances were my responsibility--altho I didn't want it--and I've never even been able to ask H to cut back temporarily due to unexpected expenses without him freaking out. Last spring we took a Dave Ramsey course at church, but it was really kinda too late by then I think--his head was no longer into this partnership.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
Mama, I swear we are twins, separated at birth. Only STBX-H refused to set one foot in the door of the Ramsey gig. Got a minute? I could use a reality check on my thread. Peace.
In and out of semi-panic. Christmas. Furnace. Unanticipated expenses.
Aside from that, I'm okay. Got a lot done around the house over the weekend, and I feel good about that. Boxing up some things H left behind and further making the place our own. It looks a lot different (i.e. better) than a few weeks ago.
Work was busy. Got healing touch group tonite with D, looking forward to that.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
