Just kinda shocked me reading it. I was WAAAYYYY paranoid for a little myself as my W is soooooo into money. Before the bomb, I had changed the beneficiary of my life insurance to the kids to be doled out by a trustee as needed for their livelihood in the event of my untimely demise. I made sure that she was aware; because I knew something wasn't right about a month before the bomb.
Even then, I took my 9mm and the ammo and kept it in my "man purse." It goes with me everywhere. Not that I'm scared of her; but maybe I watched too many Lifetime movies and too many of those "Snapped" documentaries.
They don't call me marriedCrazy for nothing!!!
BTW, sorry you couldn't get what you wanted in drop offs and that ROFR blows; but you're doing what you need to do. I wish you well my friend.