Thank you all. Is it the right thing to do? I hear more and more about W talking about things after we D, etc... is it worth it?
Anyway, despite it all I am trying to take the high road. Am tied up at work, so I sent a message home to let W know I would be here for at least another hour. She actually replied - not expected. In fact I also sent the same message to S13 so someone in the house would acknowledge.
Ready for this. Remember our planned Hawaii trip that W still wants to go on? The W of the friends (FW) we were to go with received a text from W today. Went something like this:
W: not trying to avoid you, just so busy. FW: maybe we will get together in January when you are less busy. W: oh, do you know something I don't know?
FW obv talking about us not going to Hawaii over Christmas. FW told friend who called to warn me. WTF is W thinking?????????? Friend wants NOTHING to do with W right now... will ruin their holiday and I so agree!
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ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.