I then find out this past Saturday he told a neighbor - his friend- that "I'm dragging my feet otherwise I'd be divorced by now" .. last time I checked he could file if he wanted to... that was another blow to the heart.
This might not be quite the blow to your heart that you think it is. He's dragging his feet! Why????
Could he be second guessing his decision? Could he want back in? Certainly, I don't know. But this means YOU have more TIME!!!!