A, He's going to be angry w/the world and you know what? He should be extremely angry w/himself. He made this mess that he's gotten himself and you and your family into.
I wouldn't even try to explain the credit card debt any more. Let him figure it out. You've done the best you can and it's still not enough for him.
Please do not stay home alone on Thanksgiving Day. It's not a good day to be alone, but I do understand how you feel. I'm sure the children will not want to leave you home alone.
As for your h, life is getting ready to smack him right in the middle of his forehead.
Please take care of yourself and do try to have a nice Thanksgiving in spite of his antics.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
