I get so confused about what I should do. Our MC says I should "plant seeds" a little at a time and then let H think about it. But DB says "No R talk". I am never angry or accusatory or anything like that with him. I validate his feelings and genuinely try to understand what little he does say. I just worry and second guess all the time, and I don't know how to just let go!
TJ
Me45,H49 D24,S18 M26,T28 Bomb 3/19/08 Sep 6/23/08 EA/PA with Secretary 2007-8 3/2009 H moved in w/OW2 7/2009 Let him go w/Love. 8/2009 Legally Sep'd
I am never angry or accusatory or anything like that with him. I validate his feelings and genuinely try to understand what little he does say. I just worry and second guess all the time, and I don't know how to just let go! 
