SS you are funny, thanks for the laugh on my thread... tic toc is right.. I will update I promise...
OK I wish Puppy would give me the awesome advice you are getting... Puppy I might have to start a new thread to ask you a few questions too.
I agree that a bitter R talk won't be impactful.. As my C says... telling our S about our feelings and how this makes you feel is ok with out questioning them, or OM, convo... I did this exact thing last Wednesday with sadness and love in my voice and he actually listen and I got some reaction out of him... so be prepared and in a place of love, sadness for the loss of this M when you talk to her... get to her heart... it is there somewhere.
OK - are you or can you sign up on Face Book?? that is how I've talked to a few people from this board but we do have to be careful as they don't want us sharing info.. but I'm on face book and I can give you clues to find me... let me know if you want to give it a shot then we can exchange lawyer info.. isn't that nice...
thinking of you!!!
Me: 38/H:40 M:7yrs TG: 10yrs 2Girls: 4yr & 7 month old Bomb 8/22/08 OW/EA/PA 8/23/08 with 25yr old Moved out 9/22/08