Well Karen as hard as it will be I would do as the L instructs. Let him have them. I think it will be an eye-opener for both of them. I think H may reconsider his bid for custody after this and if not, OW may decide this isn't quite the "Love Boat" she thought it would be.
Take care.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option