My perspective on that front may not be the best because I am pretty loose in that regard. My wife goes where she wants and I have never really worried about it. I figure if it's gonna happen, it's gonna happen. It is sort of ironic in my case but even now I believe if my house is in order, there is nothing to worry about. That said, your husband is getting his undies in a bunch over nothing...assuming you have never given him reason to doubt
Me 44 She 46 S13 D9 M18 T23 3 years DB'ing Successfully busted